npdizaya:

friendly reminder that your friends with bpd, npd, hpd, and dpd actually need attention and support. it’s not just “being needy” or selfish, it’s necessary for their health, no matter how excessive it might seem. 

there is nothing wrong with “being needy”. stop shaming people for needing attention and instead actually GIVE them positive attention. 

some of us crave negative attention, but getting enough positive attention can help us avoid conflict instead.

this is also a reminder for people with bpd, npd, hpd, and dpd

positive attention is healthy. negative attention is (usually) not. try to focus more on support and healthy interactions. conflict brings stress and can lead to legal issues or even physical injury. try to avoid seeking it out if you have people around you who can provide positive attention.

fireandlifeincarnate:

fireandlifeincarnate:

mutant kids who grow up in supportive mutant households who are excited for their powers to manifest. mutant kids wondering if they’ll be something cool

# mutant kids wondering if their mutations will be a mix of their parents or something new # mutant kids helping each other in case some mutations are awry at first # mutant kids who grow up to love their mutations and are not weaponizes in any way shape or form (via hylianstars) I LIKE THE WAY YOU THINK